Gear up people. This is the deep stuff.
At work, I interviewed a local soldier about a blood drive he is involved with. This, naturally, led to a conversation about the value of donating blood, and led into a conversation about donating organs.
Which hit me like a ton of bricks.
Recently, I lost my dear Brittany.
She was a double lung recipient.
When I met her, I had no idea. In fact, I knew her for about a week before I found out that she had Cystic Fibrosis and a set of healthy lungs from a donor.
It was a strange moment. It was like knowing that little yellow donor card in my wallet could make a difference.
After I found out, I changed my donor status from "Transplant only" to "Transplant and Research". If my organs aren't good enough for transplant when my time comes, maybe they can be used to conduct research that will save a life.
I am unbelievably grateful to whichever family it was that made sure to donate their loved ones organs to save Brittany. I am so grateful, that sometimes I actually feel guilty. Somebody lost a child, a sister, a friend, or maybe even a lover and I'm just happy Brittany got some lungs.
Had Brittany not received this gracious donation, we never would have met. That pains me more than out short time together. Sometimes I feel like a bag of crap for not treating her like she was more breakable – but I am certain she'd have slapped me silly if I had. Maybe that's why we worked so well together.
I am pretty sure we met at the perfect time in both our lives. We were both in need of the kind of friendship we grew to have.
Brittany filled a gap I didn't know I had in my heart. I can see the gap she's left everywhere else as well – especially in her family. I love them like my own – even in their darkest times, they took me in and let me grieve along side them.
I have a lot of beautiful memories and for that, I am grateful. I'd like to tell you that we took earth-shattering vacations and partied like rock stars, but we didn't. We just did a whole lot of nothing special together and had A LOT of fun doing it.
I really hadn't started this with intentions to bring you all down. I apologize.
I started this with intentions of telling you why you need to sign a donor card.
Sure, you will save the life of the recipient, but you will change the lives of so many more for the better.
You will give someone the chance to have a beautiful, life-changing friendship.
You will give a family the opportunity to see a girl grow into a woman to be proud of.
You will give young friends the chance to grow up together.
You will give the world the chance to see a miracle.
Signing that card will give you the chance to make a world of difference...
I may be sad because Brittany is no longer here, but I had the chance to know and love her. There will never be a time when I won't miss her, but I will always feel the love in my memories – and that's what counts.
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| Celebrating Britt's Anniversary. |
Also, donate blood. That's a good thing too.
xo
